Modern relationships are weird. We all have laptops and tablets, we all leave them lying around and a lot of us have plenty of files on our hard drives we don't want our significant others to see. Some of us try are crafty, labeling the folder something like “Math” or “The Weissman File,” but soon enough, your significant other finds herself looking for that one photo of her in that dress she tried on in 2014 and after a deep search, she comes across a file marked “Doittomebigtime.mkv." The next thing you know, you’re in the middle of a conversation you can’t win. Welcome to 2016. If you’re partner who's found that file, before you confront your man, why not shift your perspective? Instead of awkwardly scolding him, look at it like a horoscope, or an opportunity to sit on a candid session between him and his therapist. There’s a lot to learn. Here’s what your partner’s \ adult film preferences says about him.