Narcissistic behavior is considered to be one of the most relationship-wrecking behavioral models that you can have. Dealing with a narcissist is often mind-numbingly aggravating and typically will end with the victim being used, abused, and manipulated. But, if you ask some people, dealing with a passive-aggressive person can actually be way worse. Unlike narcissists, passive-aggressive people tend to be very hard to figure out. Here’s why those who prefer narcissists might be onto something, and how you can minimize damage dealt by narcissists when they abuse.