Home Baby Struggles Of Being A Bisexual Mom Struggles Of Being A Bisexual Mom Oct 9, 2015 If you're a bisexual mom, then you'll understand these struggles all too well. Check them out! When people say you don’t look “bisexual.” People assume your girlfriend is your friend. Everyone assumes you’re straight. Because you have a child people assume you picked a side. They assume you’re immature. . . . . . Because you’re clearly just trying to impress someone or are still experimenting. People ask if you’re concerned what your child will think or if they will be affected. Hearing hetero friends of yours participate in bi-erasure or homophobia all together. You’re deemed as an inadequate parent because you can’t “make up your mind.” When you’re dating a woman, people assume you’ve gone full lesbian. People think it’s selfish of you that you can’t pick a side, for the sake of your children. Your kids are sometimes confused, because you date mean and women. You can’t decide who makes a better parent to your kids, a woman or man. You don’t want to confuse your child even more than they already are.