Sex is certainly no time to be lazy. Sex is about focus. It's about being as intimate with someone as you could possibly be. But then again, life isn't predictable enough to assume that we'd all have the energy for this to always be the case. Life is exhausting. Have you noticed? We're constantly wearing ourselves thin, and as much as we would love the idea of being completely lost in someone, our bodies sometimes just can't manage putting in the effort. If only you could be a bit lazy and a bit selfish in bed, to have as much as possible without putting in really any effort. Keep reading to find out how you can be secretly lazy and selfish in bed without your partner knowing.