The biggest problem that guys have with girls is that they can’t tell whether we’re actually flirting with them, or just being nice. Though we’d like to think that they can pick up on a woman’s subtle cues, most men are really pretty obtuse. Short of actually being blunt and telling them that we want them to ask us out, there’s no surefire way to see if they can pick up on cues. If you’re a guy, you may have accidentally ignored a girl’s advances in the past thinking that she was just being nice. We can’t blame you. It’s subtle. Here’s how to tell the difference between flirting or being nice.Have you noticed some people not gathering that you're just being nice? Let us know in the comments section below.