”Once More, With Feeling.” That intense elation you experience when you’re having sex isn’t just something you can get from sex. You can get it from being genuinely close with someone. When you’re sincerely happy with someone, your brain is going to pump out some natural chemicals that keep you on high, and condoms aren’t even needed.
Get together. The more activities you can do with someone, the closer you’re going to be become. This is why some of the best couples share hobbies. They want to connect on a deeper level — deeper even than anything they can get in bed.
Put it into words. When we write to each other these days, we do it over texts and emails. These aren’t at all romantic. So bring back something new and leave letters around the house for them. Keep them surprised. If ever there was love, this is it.